For modern liberal Jews, the ritual of Jewish circumcision (Bris or Brit Milah) need not be extremely painful for the child (which it almost certainly is) nor for the parents, if they choose a symbolic ceremony. This ceremony is called a "Brit Shalom." While most Jews believe that all Jews circumcise, and thus put themselves under tremendous pressure to conform, it is important to remember that today, circumcision is a choice. Virtually all that has been written about circumcision over the centuries ignores the infant's experience. His physical struggle to escape the usually minimally-anesthetized surgery and his piercing screams are evidence of an appropriate response to attack. It is a violation of Torah law to physically assault or harm another person (Exodus 21:18-27). Jewish law recognizes a newborn infant as a person if the infant has been born after a full-term pregnancy. With circumcision though, we generally overlook the humanity of the newborn infant and his awareness, perception, sensitivity, and meaningful responsiveness, though these abilities have been thoroughly documented by the latest research. Since open communication about circumcision is discouraged, there is virtually no discussion among others who feel similar conflicts and doubts around circumcision. There are many ceremonial elements that are sensitive to the infant and the community. One alternative ritual combines the "Baby Naming Ceremony" or "Simchat Bat" with the symbolic "Bris" or "Brit Milah" to create a "Brit Shalom” ("Covenant of Peace"). This ceremony may be led by the rabbi and it has all the joy of the traditional ritual without the pain of the circumcision. Contact us now to schedule your Brit Shalom. |
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